Everybody desire to have healthy vibrant relationships to live, love, and thrive. Studies show that the secret to a long life is healthy relationships. Therefore, it is of great importance for you to aspire to delight in healthy relationships.
As relationships grow, it becomes a norm to ignore, forget, or take for granted some simple essential truths that can undeniably improve your relationship. When you invest in good healthy relationships, you reap great and innumerable benefits.
Have you asked yourself why marriages are tough sometimes? Why do some enduring relationships click, as others tick away like a time bomb? And you wonder how you can prevent a relationship from collapsing, or save one that already has?
Here are the seven keys that can unlock the doors, improve your life and as a result give you a long life. Read about them and embrace them with diligence.
When you care for the ones, you love it open the door to their hearts. They embrace the partner letting themselves to be susceptible since they feel valued, accepted, and loved with no conditions. It works when you verbally tell them through word of affirmation, providing acts of service and spending quality time, gifting and touching appropriately. According to Garry Chapman, this is love language. Strive to be compassionate, kind, sensitive, and considerate to your partner’s needs; it communicates volumes.
Being admired, valued, and cherished by the one you love, provides the partner with confidence and ego. To know that they matter, and you hold them in high esteem improves their energy levels, self-esteem, and self-worth. Consequently, the rating of their performance goes higher, and this makes them to be more productive, successful and committed. By spurring your loved ones by simply honoring them where honor is due and cherishing them, you will reap the fruit of abundance in every way.
Regardless of the situations, try to keep all the communications channels open. When you feel in and out of love, when you have been hurt or when you are frustrated due to the failure of your expectations—communicate with your partner. This is where many relationships miss the mark. Efficient and effective communications are vital in creating and maintaining a healthy relationship. Communicate in deeds and words. It is important to know that nonverbal type of communication is essential in love relationships. This is because communication goes beyond words. It is about the touch, looks, and gesture. Do not forget to be a good listener and avoid non-judgemental attitude.
It is highly valuable to possess the ability to compromise. The relationship is all about making the others feel understood, and when in the wrong let just go. Do not let everything to rotate around you, not always fighting to have your needs met, or standing for your rights. When you allow compromise, it saves relationships and situations.
You are not in a popularity contest. As you partner journey in this life, in success and in failure, be their cheerleader. Stand for them and don’t become an obstacle in their life as they strive to achieve their life passions and purpose. It is even more pleasant to be cheered by your partner when are hurting or when down.
Many people are afraid to confront anything that can rock the boat. It is noble to address the issues that are upsetting your relationships and confront them with wisdom and love. Confront the matters and behavior that do not take your relationship in the right direction. It is one of the pitfalls in a relationship to avoid conflicts. When the matter remains under the carpet, it can lead to a sudden death of your relationship. When you do not confront the situations, it will rob you the joy, vibrancy, and intimacy finally becoming the utmost enemy of your love.
When you say ‘I do’ during your wedding, commitment becomes the key to unlock all the others above. Commitment shows that you are indeed in a relationship, for better, for worse, in richness and want, in health and sickness. No matter what happens, you are committed to your content, relationship, and prepared to go the extra mile for your partner.
There you have it! There is more to it to each of these keys. They will give a starting point to know and comprehend what is required to have meaningful relationships. When you on each of these keys, you will grow your relationship and reap the benefits of a great relationship.
Love, live, and thrive since you deserve it!